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Family Convergence

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Yesterday brought Loni and the boys midday, Sam's dramatic eMountain bike fall down a ravine leaving him beat up but unbroken, and McMenamins lunch converging with Sydne, Dakota, and Koa. Art gallery pondering, baby chicks at Coastal serving as micro zoo, Leland discovering photographer joy with his camera. Evening pizza with Debi and John, Uno games, conversation flowing easily among generations. The house filled with family energy, multiple branches gathering, kids exploring their interests while adults facilitated and observed.

Technical Talk and Vineyard Walks

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Yesterday moved from SESIG's technical discussions about solar inverters and sodium batteries through guest preparation to Joey's arrival and Corvallis tour—Coffee Culture barista recognition, Airlie Winery's lovely flight and vineyard photography, E.E. Wilson pictures, finishing my Suds beer card earning the T-shirt, and Old World Deli dinner where Joey made new musical contacts. The day divided between morning engineering talk and afternoon social adventure, both satisfying in their own ways.

Deck Transformations

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Yesterday brought lower deck cleaning that transformed the hot tub space, a quest for storage containers yielding wooden boxes at Bi-Mart, and a squeezed-in Planet Fitness workout where I caught up with Steve. Brief beer at Suds with yet another new bartender got cut short by a call that canceled, leaving time for Minecraft before yoga. Post-yoga conversation with Cathy about organizational change, while separately noticing Suds now runs two shifts daily—new rhythms, new bartenders, new patterns emerging from what used to be stable.

Systems and Understanding

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Yesterday brought chats with many people, Zoom conversation with Gwen about British travels and retirement aspirations, and an abandoned Planet Fitness workout after discovering my padlock had wandered off. Evening beer and pizza with Steve included pondering how humans know and trust anything—thought experiments about dropping stone age people into modern government or average people into AI-saturated worlds, questions about abstraction tools we lack for understanding complex systems. We've always dealt with incomprehensible intelligence though: other humans. Those relationship tools work but aren't generally accepted for AI.

Engineering Solutions

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Yesterday moved from SESIG discussions about grease through England blog migration to solar system engineering, from First Tuesday lunch stories about Alaska to solo yoga that proved painful and good. Jerry at Be Solar clarified I'll need to engineer my own system, Aurora the new Suds bartender draws an interesting crowd, and I chatted with Emily on Strava—pleasant conversation, though these days you have to wonder if online connections are actually human.

Slow Momentum

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Yesterday moved at a gentler pace—photo processing interspersed with naps, solar installation discussions acknowledging expensive realities, and the discovery that tree clearing created an impressive layer of dust on my upper deck. Between conversations with Tom from Earthlight Technologies about energy independence costs and checking off bottled beers at Suds with Tim, Brian, and Jack, the day accumulated modest progress without demanding urgency. Sometimes productivity means accepting a restorative pace, letting tasks unfold without forcing momentum that isn't naturally there.

Photos and Philosophy

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Yesterday divided between abstract political theory and concrete image-making, between refining democracy arguments at Coffee Culture and processing Mika's photos at home, between Zoom conversations with Terril and showing friends my transformed view. The democracy piece continues evolving, the Mika photos turned out pretty classy, and Mary impressively completed a 25K run that morning. My house, unfortunately, wasn't prepared for visitors—a reminder that maintaining guest-ready domestic space requires more attention than I've been giving it. My sister Nancy will visit this week, adding another layer of social navigation to the calendar.

Coast Photography

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The day stretched from democracy theory through pork ragu to pelican photography, from wave-watching painters to overconfident experts, from jetty rocks to Minecraft redstone. Between the south jetty and Yaquina Head I captured one good landscape and one good pelican shot, plus learned that 1/250th shutter speed won't freeze birds in flight and that long exposures of calm ocean lack the drama of turbulent water. Not a photographic bust—just the accumulation of practical lessons that gradually build competence. The painter at the gallery doesn't like photographs because they can't capture the colors she sees, which might be the most honest assessment of the medium's limitations I've heard in a while.

Friday

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SESIG ranged from self-driving cars to federal policies to solar installations, Ben from Pure Energy brought solar consultation to my living room, and Minecraft claimed multiple sessions between social engagements. The day accumulated through alternating rhythms—virtual warehouse construction, real conversations about energy independence, hot tub soaking, and 3am insomnia remedied by more block-placing. Woke up this morning wanting my Starbucks routine, but that life is gone now. Some changes arrive through corporate decisions you never get to vote on.

The Fading of America

In lands once vibrant, a hush began to fall, As hues receded, answering a silent call. A robin’s breast, once scarlet, soft and bright, Now softened to a whisper, dimming into white. The laughter bubbling, free and light and bold, Grew fainter, like a story seldom told. And as the spectrum bled from every scene, So too, the world forgot what joy had been. The golden sun, a muted, pallid gleam, Reflected in a colorless, slow-flowing stream. No longer emerald fields, but shades of grey, Where children used to frolic, laugh, and play. Their smiles, once radiant, a gentle, fading glow, As happiness diminished, soft and low. The vibrant zest, the keen, delightful spark, Surrendered to the encroaching, joyless dark. A painter wept, his canvas stark and bare, For all the pigments vanished from the air. No fiery passion, no serene cool blue, Just endless tones of what was once so new. And with each brushstroke, spirit seemed to wane, A silent sorrow, washing through the rain. The songs once su...

Just another Thursday

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The morning brought solar system emails and realizations about Red Queen's races, lunch revealed John's breakfast venture might include me somehow, and yoga reminded my body what stretching feels like after too long away. Between optimizing digital storage and making electrical panels accessible, between Minecraft warehouses and England trip posts, the day accumulated its small purposes. Oh, and I apparently went all of yesterday without contacts—discovered only while driving when things looked fuzzy—proof that functionality doesn't always require perfect vision.

Threading Possibilities

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The day unfolded through meaningful exchanges: journaling methods with Jim over backgammon, celebrating Sydne's post-op clearance over Mexican food, initiating solar panel plans, and exploring information theory at the Andromeda meeting. Between backgammon moves and Minecraft sessions, life assembled itself from conversations about energy independence, portrait photography opportunities, and getting a stubborn cat to use her fancy litter box. Sometimes productivity means connecting threads between people and possibilities.

Attack Surfaces

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Yesterday delivered small satisfactions—contractors dumping dirt in my backyard, assembling Trouble's fancy litter box, warehouse progress in Minecraft—until my phone decided to spontaneously broadcast street noises just as I was going to bed. No call, no explanation, just mysterious audio that required a reboot to silence. Not every day needs a grand theme, but apparently some days need unexplained technical weirdness to remind you that attack surfaces deserve more attention than you've been giving them.

Less Productive

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I had ambitious plans for yesterday afternoon, but instead spent hours building a virtual Home Depot in Minecraft. The day divided into three acts: productive blog migration in the morning, shameless digital construction in the afternoon, and beer with friends in the evening. Sometimes productivity isn't about accomplishing everything intended—it's recognizing that building imaginary warehouses can be exactly what a day needs. This morning's meditation delivered wisdom: worry steals today's peace without preventing tomorrow's pain.

Walking

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Yesterday I walked 18,921 steps—from morning house projects through hunting-season detours to late-night trudges home from the bar. But the most important steps weren't measured by my fitness tracker. They happened over lunch at Tacovore, where a casual conversation about Starbucks closing might have just sparked the solution our neighborhood needs. Sometimes the best walks are the ones that lead you to unexpected opportunities, whether they're measured in miles or ideas.

Fall Festival

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I made my last trip to Starbucks this morning, joining the other mourners gathered around a coffee shop that corporate decided wasn't worth keeping. By evening, I'd wandered through the Fall Festival encountering familiar faces in the crowd, fixed a broken Minecraft server, and ended up hoping a faceless corporation fails miserably at whatever venture they're planning. Some days you get small rebellions mixed with unexpected joys—this was one of those days.

Mixed Day

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Some days arrive bearing gifts with one hand while taking things away with the other. This morning I discovered thoughtful development plans for the land below my house—new trees, careful spacing, a hopeful future. By afternoon I'd learned my neighborhood Starbucks is closing, victim of corporate spreadsheet thinking. Between the good and bad news, I troubleshot a wedged Minecraft server, walked through podcasts about insulin resistance, and heard friends describe Burning Man. Impermanence, it turns out, is the only constant—and today it arrived in full force.

Day with Sydne

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Sydne showed up because she missed me, which worked out perfectly because I'd been missing her too. We spent the day wandering downtown Corvallis—touring a century-old hotel, drinking bloody marys, and discovering that good sandwich shops still believe in table service. By evening I'd managed to overcook chicken so badly that fire trucks arrived at my door, proving that someone who can navigate British rail systems can still be humbled by basic dinner preparation. Some days remind you that coming home means relearning your own territory, one pleasant surprise and minor disaster at a time.

Settling In

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The first full day back from a month-long journey reveals itself in layers: email processing at Starbucks, a GFI circuit throwing a tantrum, lunch with friends who want to hear the real stories, and healthcare bureaucracy that rivals anything I navigated abroad. By evening I'd fixed the electrical mystery, planted companion seeds in the garden, and shared England tales over beer and pizza while my friend marveled at my new view. Coming home isn't a single moment—it's a gradual re-inhabiting of familiar spaces that have somehow become both strange and welcoming at once.

Westonbirt and Away

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A peaceful final day among early autumn trees at the National Arboretum, followed by afternoon tea, Thai dinner in Thornbury, and a 3:15 AM departure through Reading to Heathrow. After a month exploring England's industrial heritage from Ironbridge to Cornwall's tin mines, the journey concludes with deep appreciation for Ian and Emma, who made it all possible through their arranging, driving, and companionship—there's no way this could have been done solo.

Initial Observations and Takeaways

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After a month exploring England's industrial heritage, collecting random observations feels valuable—even if perspectives shift once home. From the practicalities of terrifying British roads and ubiquitous traffic circles to deeper reflections on heritage preservation and the expanded sense of historical time that comes from walking among ruins spanning millennia, this trip offered both practical lessons and profound perspective shifts on human nature across eras.

Day of the Dog

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My brain was complete mush today—mental exhaustion finally catching up after weeks of intensive travel and documentation. Despite interesting company and entertainment, the day was mostly about recognizing when to stop pushing and let the mind rest. A neighborhood dog walk, a murder mystery performance where I guessed wrong, a casual pub with a resident dog, and Assassin's Creed on screen. Sometimes the most important thing about travel is knowing when your brain needs to pause.

Green Futures

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Packed up Cornwall with an unexpected slug-chasing session, then visited the Eden Project's massive biome domes before traffic detours led us through the Exe valley to Exmoor, where hundreds of ring-necked pheasants turned a motorway routing mishap into an ornithological windfall. A day of transitions—from the dramatic coastal mining landscapes of Cornwall back to the gentler countryside around Thornbury, with a detour through visions of possible green futures at Eden.

Seaside Views

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Today was about capturing Cornwall's most dramatic industrial landscapes—engine houses perched impossibly on cliff faces where raw Atlantic meets Victorian engineering. From the fog-shrouded hike up Cape Cornwall to the half-hour spent working compositions at Botallack, this was the photography I came for. The day ended perfectly in St. Ives with harbor views, exceptional food, and live jazz, a fitting celebration of Cornwall's ability to blend natural beauty with human ingenuity.

Ancient Endings

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Started the morning with a walk halfway to Zennor, the nearby village, where a blustery wind made wearing a hat pointless and a chance encounter with a neighbor walking his dogs offered a glimpse into local life. Then we jumped 2,000 years through time—from ancient tin traders to World War II telecommunications—stopping at stone circles, Iron Age settlements, and the spot where global telegraph cables literally came ashore to connect the British Empire.

Mining Your Manners

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Cornwall's tin mining wasn't just about extracting metal from the ground—it was about building global supply chains that connected remote coastal villages with markets across the world. Today we explored engine houses that pumped water from shafts reaching 1,700 feet underground, examined Oregon pine logs that reinforced those same shafts, and stood in museums that demonstrated how Cornwall's mining expertise became an export commodity itself. By evening, dining in a 14th-century castle overlooking the industrial landscape below, the layering of history felt almost overwhelming.

Drive to Cornwall

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Today marked our transition into Cornwall, where four millennia of human activity compressed into a single day. From Jay's grave to Bronze Age stone circles to Victorian clay works, each stop revealed how different eras leave their marks on the landscape. The narrow Cornish roads demanded local knowledge, the remote pub defied economic logic, and by evening we'd moved through enough centuries to make Mindwalk's meditation on interconnectedness feel perfectly timed.

Intermission

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Just caught up on things today. Nothing exciting. Pictures here ... https://beloretrato0.picflow.com/d43bka91mw/491twx7sx8

Malvern Hills

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Industrial innovation happens where resources align, but resources aren't necessarily immediately at hand. Coal, iron ore, limestone came together at Ironbridge through transportation and concentration. In Malvern, the critical resource was technical expertise—brain power concentrated in one location during WWII when radar facilities relocated from vulnerable coastal areas. Physical resources could be transported, but specialized knowledge had to be assembled. The right combination of available resources, strategic location, infrastructure, and human expertise creates centers of innovation that persist because knowledge concentration becomes self-reinforcing.

A Mineful Moment

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Going underground at Big Pit changed something. Standing in those tunnels, feeling rock overhead, breathing air only there because of maintained ventilation—you realize how much trust these jobs required. Six-year-olds worked ventilation doors in complete darkness. Fathers and sons died together in accidents. Mine owners treated horses better than miners. The mine operated until 1980. This isn't ancient history. The Industrial Age isn't distant history—it's the foundation we're still building on.

Shipping and Handling

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Gloucester Docks illustrates transportation economics. Making it England's furthest inland port required significant infrastructure investment—canal systems to get ships that far from sea. The payoff was serving a much larger hinterland without overland transport costs. Salt export made sense: heavy bulk commodity expensive to move overland, cheap to ship by water. The inland location meant salt gathered from wide areas, consolidated for efficient shipping. Sometimes the most important industrial sites aren't where things are made, but where they change hands.

To Infinity …

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From Concorde to the Matthew—five centuries of British exploration and innovation in one day. The aerospace museum showed how Britain pushed flight boundaries to supersonic passenger travel. Concorde was elegant, fast, ultimately unsustainable. The Matthew represents when crossing the Atlantic was as audacious as breaking the sound barrier. Both required technical innovation, financial backing, willingness to risk everything on unproven ideas. The Matthew led to centuries of transatlantic trade. Concorde lasted twenty-seven years. Different outcomes, same human drive.

Taking in Bath

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Bath represents multiple layers of history and tourism stacked on each other. Romans built functional baths. Georgians built fashionable architecture. Victorians added romantic interpretations of both. Modern tourism adds another layer of interpretation and infrastructure. Each era imposed its own aesthetic and understanding on what came before. The result tells you as much about successive generations' values as any particular historical period. You're always seeing the past through multiple filters.

Transportation

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Today mixed Neolithic sites with Victorian transportation infrastructure—a thread connecting how people move things across difficult terrain. Caen Hill Locks descending a hill, each with its own pond and bird species. West Kennet Long Barrow and Avebury showing sophisticated construction long before industrialization. The STEAM museum highlighting how Brunel's Great Western Railway revolutionized land transport like canals did for water. Romans built aqueducts using similar engineering principles. Each solution building on previous innovations while creating new possibilities.

Slow Day in Thornbury

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Sometimes slow days reveal as much as busy ones. Walking along the Severn, examining layers of transportation infrastructure—ferry, tunnel, bridge, newer bridge—you see each generation solving the same problem differently. The fossil beds reminded us this landscape was shaped by processes longer than human engineering. The Severn has been cutting through this terrain for millions of years. Our bridges are temporary interventions in a much older story. Evening brought the 2012 Olympics opening ceremony—complex feelings about celebrating that legacy.

Phase 1: Steam, Iron, and Human Cost

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Two weeks covering foundational British industrialization—Ironbridge to Peak District. The geography made sense: coal, iron ore, limestone, rivers together. But museums sanitize the human cost. Reality was systematic brutality: nine-year-old boys lighting explosive fuses, women paid one-third of men's wages. Masson Mills revealed everything—working machinery showing what twelve-hour shifts actually meant. The bones of the Industrial Revolution are more complex, brutal, and connected than expected. Each innovation building on the last.

End of Phase 1

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The Victorian Pumping Station at Burton-on-Trent exemplified how Victorians approached problems—they built systems at the scale problems demanded. Four enormous steam-powered pumps treating brewery sewage, with all supporting machinery. Massive, overengineered, built to last. Infrastructure designed for grandchildren to inherit. It operated until the 1960s. The opposite of our current approach: finding the cheapest solution that barely works. Phase one complete—Ironbridge to Peak District, following how steam power transformed everything.

Plagues

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Eyam's story is remarkable for its moral clarity. When plague arrived in 1665, villagers quarantined themselves rather than flee, knowing it likely meant death. About 260 of 350 residents died. Standing in that village, reading records of who died when, you're confronted with what leadership actually looks like—people making hard decisions based on evidence, accepting personal cost for the greater good. No germ theory, no vaccines, no modern medicine. Just observation that disease spread person to person and moral conviction not to inflict it on others. Moral Leadership in Crisis September 5, 2025 A lot of driving today and we had to pack up to move to a different location. Magpie Mine First we stopped by the Magpie lead mine. Pretty interesting in that it contained a lot of equipment from various stages of its life. It was last used in 1958. Next we wandered around a bit and ended up checking out the area around the Monsal Trail. Pretty country. Lots of landscape shots. ...

Heart of the Machine

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Masson Mills was the first place where the complete system was working. Not just buildings or historical context, but actual machinery turning raw cotton into thread. Standing next to spinning frames, hearing the noise, feeling the vibration—suddenly you understand twelve-hour shifts in that environment. The working machinery made the human cost vivid. Museums with static displays can't convey the scale, noise, relentless pace. The heart of the machine, literally beating.

Old Money

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The mills and mines created wealth through production. Chatsworth displays wealth already made. Both represent concentrations of money, but one was a machine for creating it, the other a monument to having it. The irony: industrial sites that generated prosperity are mostly ruins, while aristocratic excess is preserved as tourist attractions. Standing in those ornate rooms surrounded by priceless art, you're seeing centuries of extraction—not just from mines and mills, but from people who had no choice but to work in them.

Round and Round

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Today I stood in a Bronze Age stone circle and then walked through an Industrial Revolution textile mill, both within miles of each other in the Derbyshire countryside. What struck me wasn't the contrast—it was how both represent the same human impulse to leave something permanent behind. One civilization built with stone to honor the cosmos. Another built with stone to harness water power. Both are still here. Both tell stories about what humans think is worth preserving. The question that lingered as we drove back through fields and villages: what are we building now that will still stand in 3,000 years?

Minecraft

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Today required catching a train from Matlock to Matlock Bath—not entirely sure why this was necessary, but it turned into an unexpected adventure. Matlock Bath is a peculiar tourist trap dropped into the English countryside, filled with arcades and fish and chips shops. Its main attraction is the Heights of Abraham, reached by cable car. What followed was a study in contrasts: two lead mines, two tours, two completely different approaches to telling the same story about extracting metal from rock in the Peak District.

Transition

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Buildings outlast their original purposes, getting repurposed as economics and technology change. The Flax and Malting Mill—the first steel-framed structure ever created—spent ninety years processing flax before becoming a malting facility. The steel frame that prevented flax fires worked just as well for malting grain. Even the rat control evolved: overfed cats failed, so they brought in Jack Russells instead. Industrial infrastructure adapts, transforming while the bones remain.

In Times Past

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Victorian industrial society was interconnected in ways more complex than what came before or after. Blists Hill's recreation showed dozens of trades—ceramics, photography, woodworking, pharmacy, banking, more—each depending on several others. The overlapping techniques revealed how metalworking skills applied across different crafts, how similar principles showed up everywhere. Transportation systems connected it all: rail, canals, shipping, horse-drawn carts creating a functioning economy. Not just the big innovations, but all the supporting trades that made the system work.

Walks and Ruins

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Stone endures longer than the ambitions that shaped it. Today moved through layers of history—Roman Wroxeter fading into fields, abbeys destroyed during the Dissolution, church headstones from the 1600s. Between them, Cantlop Bridge: the first iron bridge designed for iron's properties rather than mimicking wood. Standing among these remnants makes quests for power seem pointless. Major urban centers vanish completely. Affluence simply disappears. A reminder of impermanence.

Walks and the Black Country Museum

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The Industrial Revolution created incredible wealth and innovation, but standing in recreated workshops watching demonstrations makes one thing clear: the human cost was factored into the economics from the beginning. Girls as young as six hauling clay from mines, women paid one-third of men's wages tossing twenty-pound lumps into brick forms, nine-year-old boys left behind to light gunpowder fuses in limestone caverns. Losing one miner per week was considered normal. The efficiency came from treating people as expendable components in a larger system. This wasn't considered to be an unfortunate side effect—it was how the system worked.

Iron and China

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Both require mastery of fire and materials, but iron is about strength and function while china is about delicacy and beauty. Today moved from Coalbrookdale's Museum of Iron through the first iron bridge to Coalport China Works, where the revelation came. The process of making china—specific materials, precise workmanship, multiple firings—is as complex as any ironworks but aimed at creating something genuinely beautiful. Between these stops, Bedlam Forge: substantial ruins filling a wide spot on a narrow road, evidence of how much industrial activity scattered through this landscape.

The Journey North

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Geography shapes commerce in ways that become obvious once you see the terrain. Stourport sits where the Severn stops being navigable to regular boats—a natural transfer point. The Tontine building there funded construction through an unusual lottery: investors bought shares, last survivor takes all. Bridgnorth's upper and lower sections connect via funicular railway, the obvious solution when standing at the cliff between them. Each town engineered its way around geographic constraints, creating the connected market systems along Britain's longest river that made industrialization possible.

Bank Holiday Rest Day

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Sometimes the best travel days are the ones where nothing much happens. Bank Holiday Monday meant closed shops and crowded attractions, so we stayed around the house—wine in the garden, conversation, letting jet lag work itself out at its own pace. A morning supply run to Tesco, an afternoon walk through Thornbury photographing flowers and berries, getting the cameras adjusted to the light here. The Pale Blue Eye in the evening, intense and gothic, perfect for someone still disoriented from travel. Tomorrow we head north toward Ironbridge and the real work begins. But today was exactly what I needed: the slow start before diving into the main event.

First Day: Lunch and Tintern Abbey

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Jet lag has a way of reshaping plans. The Forest of Dean parking situation sent us toward Tintern Abbey instead, where we accidentally stumbled into a group of actors recreating medieval abbey life in period costume among the ancient stones. Sometimes the best discoveries come from failed plans. Emma wasted no time getting me out of the house after my arrival—Sunday roast at a riverside pub, then into the Wye Valley where I dozed through beautiful countryside before walking among ruins that dwarf anything we build today. History turned out to be messier than the simplified versions, and the scale of these medieval operations is something you have to experience in person. Good start.

The Trip There

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Travel rarely goes according to plan. Denver's thunderstorms turned a simple connection into an overnight delay, a reroute through San Francisco, and a 2:30 AM wake-up call. But sometimes the complications work out—first class upgrade, excellent lounge time at SFO, and that peculiar satisfaction of watching your miles accumulate on Strava as you hike 2.2 miles through Heathrow's terminals. The journey from Portland to Bristol Parkway took longer than expected, but small victories accumulate: a £15 train upgrade instead of £200, a Diet Coke refund, and Emma waiting at the platform. Finally made it.

Pursuing Outcomes Process

I'm pondering leading indicators this morning.  What are the signals that indicate predictable outcomes, both positive and negative outcomes.   More broadly, the whole framework of outcomes and the activities that lead to outcomes is interesting. It's kind of like this... Fact - Experience and genetic bias, which leads to ... Belief - Beliefs about circumstances, which leads to ... Desire - Needs or desires, which leads to ... Vision - Imagined desired outcomes, which may lead to ... Plan - A plan, which is a system of intermediate outcomes, which may lead to ... Action - Actions, impacts on the real world, which ideally lead to ... Change - Real desired outcomes, i.e. change. Check - How does the change align with the desire? Repeat - Repeat the above steps. Of course, it's more complicated than that but that's the straight line idealistic flow.  The multi-dimensional version of this is much more nuanced and interesting.  The process may be terminated ...

Experience

 An interesting aspect of experience is that when you have little of it many issues arise that can seem traumatic.  As you gain more experience you begin to realize that many issues are survivable and thus become less traumatic.  As you age you generally accumulate a lot of experience and many issues that might of been traumatic are less so.  This is an aspect of wisdom.   In contrast though, when you have a great deal of experience and you encounter an unfamiliar issue then it can be just as traumatic as if you'd encountered it at an earlier age.  This may help to explain the peculiar risk aversion as you get older.  In a sense, it's a reluctance to gain further experience. This may be an aspect of your brain filling up.  Your mental capacity begins to roll off at around age 30.  Whether or not it declines is an open question, but the amount of free space likely dimishes just because it gets consumed by experience.